Core Values & Guiding Principles

Inclusive and Judgment free

We welcome everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship style, race, ethnicity, religion, disabilities, or any other characteristic. We do not tolerate any form of discrimination, harassment, or hate speech. We strive to create a safe and supportive environment where everyone can express themselves freely and without fear of judgment.

Meaningful connections

We value quality over quantity and believe true connection requires mutual respect, empathy, and vulnerability. We encourage building relationships that can withstand the test of time.

Authenticity

We value honesty, transparency, and self-expression. We encourage members to be authentic in their interactions with others, and to express themselves in a way that feels true to their own identity and values.

Network support

We are committed to providing resources and support to our members. We believe that by working together, we can achieve more than we could on our own. We strive to create a network of support that is responsive to the needs of our members, and that empowers them to navigate the challenges that come with non-monogamous lifestyles/orientations.

Bring yourself and share, give back and expand our efforts in whatever way is comfortable for you

We respect each member's boundaries and limitations. We believe that everyone has something valuable to contribute, and that every contribution, no matter how small, can make a difference. We encourage members to share their skills, knowledge, and experiences, and to give back to the community in a way that feels comfortable and sustainable for them.

Keep coming back, let’s get to know each other

We value consistency and commitment. We believe that building strong relationships requires time and effort. We encourage members to stay engaged with the community, to attend events regularly, and to make an effort to get to know other members on a personal level.

Be open about your experiences

Listen to others, share ideas, ask questions, be inquisitive, we can’t do this alone. The non-monogamy lifestyle is not yet part of the societal norms for relationships, and it’s hard to seek support from those who have no experience in this life and are unable to understand.

We’re seeking to build authentic meaningful connections and networks of support amongst the non-monogamous community

This is best fostered when we are all authentic and honest about who we are, where were at in our own non-monogamous journey, and are both open to sharing our authentic selves and experiences with others, as well as open-minded to others´ lived experiences and identities.

COMMUNITY CODE OF CONDUCT

Our community is committed to creating a safe, welcoming, and respectful environment for all members. We expect all attendees of our events to uphold our Community Code of Conduct (CCC) at all times.

Any attitudes or behaviours that violate these principles towards anyone in our community will not be tolerated. Should you violate our CCC you will be asked to leave the event, and may be banned from attending future events.

By attending our events, you agree to abide by this CCC.

COME TO SOCIALISE NOT CRUISE/HOOK-UP

At NoMo Socials, our goal is to create a safe and welcoming environment where non-monogamous individuals can build connections and friendships. To achieve this, we expect all attendees to interact respectfully and without pressure or unwanted advances.

While we are proudly sex positive community, our events are focused on socializing rather than finding dates or hookups, and we encourage all interactions to be based on mutual enthusiasm and explicit consent.

We of course welcome you to build connections amongst the community which may naturally blossom in whatever ways individuals enthusiastically consent to. By upholding these values, we can foster a stronger community together.

FOSTER A POSITIVE AND INCLUSIVE ENVIRONMENT

At NoMo Socials, we strive to foster a positive and inclusive environment where all attendees are treated with respect and without harassment, discrimination, or judgment.

We welcome people of all backgrounds, identities, and experiences to our community, and we aim to create a diverse and inclusive space where everyone can feel free to express themselves and connect with others.

For some, our events may be the only safe space for exploring ethical non-monogamy, and we are committed to maintaining a welcoming atmosphere for all.

CONSENT IS KEY

At NoMo Socials, consent is key. We emphasize the importance of asking before joining conversations or making physical contact with others and respecting their boundaries.

While we aim to build a sense of community and deepen connections, it's important to remember that attendance does not entitle anyone to the time, conversation, or physical contact of others.

CONFIDENTIALITY

Respect the privacy of our NoMo community. Any information shared at our events should be kept confidential, including names, identities, and conversations, unless given explicit consent to share.

We understand that not everyone is comfortable being open about their non-monogamous lifestyle, and we want to provide a safe and supportive space where attendees can freely explore without fear of judgment or exposure.

DON´T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

We’re all human and each other have our own unique identities, needs, desires, and are at different stages in our explorations in ethical non-monogamy. We ask that you treat attendees the same as people you would meet at non NoMo Socials, by getting to know people for who they are and don’t make assumptions based on their attendance of an NoMo Social.

While we are proudly sex positive community, attending an NoMo Social doesn’t mean someone is seeking casual or any other kind of sex, or are not interested in commitment, or that its ok to engage in conversations of a sexual nature with people you just met etc.

Jumping to such conclusions and treating people accordingly can cause people to feel uncomfortable with you, the community/lifestyle, and the event, which undermines our intention of creating a social space where all feel comfortable, to be question, explore and learn what works for them.

AS A PART OF THE NOMO COMMUNITY, TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WOULD LIKE SOMEONE TO TREAT YOUR LOVED ONES

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